Abduction of a masochist
Unexpectedly, I have come to some free time. This is because a masochist (in his own words) the distance looked as if I kidnap him from the previously agreed parking with handcuffs "wanted.
After over ten years with this particular procedure, this is one of the few SM visitor who did not want to get involved in the kidnapping in handcuffs and blindfolds. The majority finds this small, exclusive adventure as a surprise, but also very cool and unique.
His explanation for the escape, he was not submissive, has me somewhat surprised. What is objected to an exciting removing handcuffed and blindfold? How do you think?
The lesson did not come to the state was of course a pity. But if there is no willingness for a predictable, low risk is present, it is probably not for a really good session to be the right place for me.
Is there anyone among my readers who are the subject of abduction in the context of BDSM fantasy dreamed of as horny or even experience even real?
Greeting
Domenique
21st March 2008 at 3:05
Hm, perhaps afraid to lose control of the situation? And he has certainly turned then to the wrong address
I personally find the idea very exciting, and I then still something sexy would find if a rough period is agreed (a few days?) Detail for the one's planned daily routines sufficiently described to end at any time "abducted" are able to without know when and where exactly it will happen.
The anticipation and excitement but at the same time the constant excitement, the nervousness and uncertainty, I imagine it quite appealing and emotionally before.
Whereby arise certainly would have an extra kick if this is the first joint session since one can be compared to assess not so good (you can even assess playful cats ever? lächel * *).
To assume would be but certainly had a little more detail mail / telephone contact at least some sympathy on mutual trust to build such a scenario requires the doubt - especially the first time.
Let's see what they think about others as the subject
Best regards and happy holidays
Leif
21st March 2008 11:44
For me, this introduction would be perfect - you can turn off (set from everyday / stress on something else), can fall, and anticipation before "angst" comes on, etc.
But there are apparently people who are 100% submissive masochists and 0% to come - probably rare, there exists at most a mix. I once told a dominatrix, that a guest has come of every month. He pulls out and can be half hour free-standing quite simple (without any fetishes or introduction whip) and he insulted during which the Domina severely inhibited (whore, etc.). The lady does not care and therefore they can not find this guest uncomfortable.
A masochist me once interviewed by email about a certain dominatrix in Germany. Although everything was perfect, he is not gone, because this lady has claimed from a slave to kiss her boots before the session. And this he did, under any circumstances. For me difficult to understand, and I was afraid that the guest is then relatively pendants, but I think it is right, if they send visitors - if the chemistry is not right - better go home.
21st March 2008 at 12:05
I remember with pleasure in such an encounter in a parking lot. appointment as I sat in the trainer in my car. My Herin picked me up and told me the coach to take off and put it in my car. It was bitterly cold, but with the blindfold and handcuffs, I was dressed for the session and then pulled back. That was a wonderful thrill and hopefully will be again.
21st March 2008 at 16:19
Dear Mistress Domenique, I could make this experience with you already - I was initially surprised as well, it felt the other at the same time very exciting, especially since it was a dream for some time fantasy of being kidnapped. Frankly I was initially not very well (it will probably not
), But then I decided with him to send me. with every minute I enjoyed it more, even if I was the noted may not. with some distance I could still imagine a quite aggravated variant. But I can certainly understand that it is not for everyone, it requires trust but a decent portion, so by the "public" to be drove. I would certainly go immediately back into your hands.
nice easter from vienna!
m.
24th March 2008 at 16:19
The terms "submissive" and "masochistic" lead in the SM scene regularly to more confusion than clarity. There are probably as many definitions to and opinions about these two terms as there are people who engage in this kind of activity. The grounds of the slaves who had fled "masochistic" and not "too submissive" is therefore ultimately be meaningless. The real reason for the retreat can be many things: a trauma from the previous life that captivated by the idea and / or "blind" to have been awakened to see a "hidden agenda" when it would have been important where the journey goes or lack of self esteem that led him to perceive a loss of control as frightening. The deeper reason for the unexpected reaction is probably remain hidden forever.
For me personally in the SM context is an unexpected twist, which of course resolves and robbed me of control of the situation is always a very big kick. If I'm the mistress of surrendering it for me is always so exciting when I no longer hold the reins in his hand but as fully as possible delivered to your desires, wishes and ideas and I give myself to it completely unprotected and needs to open. Only when I do not know what will happen, what you have with me before and how long it will take delivery of your grace I am really. Everything me this state of total submission closer to home for me is exciting and challenging. So, for example, the connection of the eyes and the tethering of the hands to be brought to an unknown place from which it may have for a long time or forever no escape.
However, the more extensive the absence of control, the greater must first trust in the person takes to be the control. The same applies to all areas of life, of course. This is the case in mountaineering as well as to when entering a car or just like visiting a dominatrix. Power and control issue is a very great confidence ahead of the active person. If I were not sure (so sure we are as a person its just a thing can) that the mistress does not want to hurt me long term (was considered physically or mentally and for whatever reason) and all relevant factors brought about a situation, I would engage me as a grown man and not thinking to an uncontrollable situation for me.
Because of all my experiences with you, dear Mistress Domenique, this trust is so great that I can not imagine a situation in which I would not follow you blindly and obey.
25th March 2008 21:20
Faantasie This concerns me since my adolescence. By a burglar, spy, agent overpowered, tied up, gagged, transported in the trunk ... such scenarios micht deal since then. My preference is to bondage in a kidnapping best to develop, with the realistic overwhelmed is a very important aspect.
Unfortunately it is very difficult to put this into reality, because this fantasy is not universally shared by women .. so my interest was poured added at this post my comment .. best wishes ..
21st December 2008 at 17:45
Dear Mistress Domenique,
Your posting and the answers are very interesting - but I also believe that there are masochists who are not submissive
With me it's rather the other way around: I am very submissive towards femininity, but rather no masochist - although I, in my worship and adoration of femininity to, but would love to endure pain - pain for YOU, the GODDESS. But at least I long to be a Mistress to the utmost to be ridiculed and humiliated ...
But now to your question: As much as I would do once, so from a lady who is sympathetic to me (ie I'll be far, much to be devout ...) by bondage, blindfolds, etc. made helpless and then kidnapped in the trunk so and in fact, that I absolutely do not remember afterwards, where I am. So I feel specially delivered and I am then probably yes ...
Dear Mistress Domenique, you think I could even do with you? I promise on my knees, that I will NOT get out! You could even still make something "exciting", as I appear to me to a certain place at a commanded of YOU time, yet you BEFORE himself a blindfold, or better yet, create a mask with no eye holes, and myself on the back Handcuffs did create, the key of course YOU have ... And then I can not help it and MUST wait so long to get YOU, and whether I will or not ... * * lächel
And if you want me before I even create a lockable toggle, or even myself to a tree or chained to a pole or similar (with padlock). And alas, I did not observe all the agreements had been ordered from you ...
And then you need me just pick up yet, belonging to scare me and take me. My God, that'd be totally, in fact, stir, excite and make ready and compliant TOTAL ...
If you provoke such an aggravated kidnapping, too?
Humbly kneeling:
Hermes
21st December 2008 19:06
Hello hermes,
if you read my blog attentive would have something ( Seeresidenz closed! ), then you only knew that I had closed my residence and am no longer active.
Such as described by you here but I have always carried out kidnappings and were again very popular with my slaves and feared.
I wish you a merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!
Greeting
Domneique
6th March 2009, at 8:27
I've always dreamed of being attacked once or lured into a trap and kidnapped in a Frau.Mann me take my clothes off men altogether, puts me in women's clothes, and I have to serve men and you'll be there erniedrigt.Oder Images made by me in women's clothes I we ran to the car stehe.Naja just fantasy you certainly want to live once!
6th March 2009 21:31
the head of cinema, I can very well understand, I myself have once may experience a kidnapping-without entering into detail on the details: it ended in a Kapelle.Ein yeux sans visage
11th September 2009 at 14:51
Without being spiritually profound, to want, I must point out: an abduction fantasy is for actual or latent submissive people are often the hottest probably what he can imagine. (Earnings after poll in the private sphere). I've got a submissive streak itself, which increases with the lust still (ie the more horny I am and the more you irritate me, the more obedient and submissive, I will). Otherwise, I'm in everyday life rather the Strong, the leader of the fighters. the submissive partner in sex is a psychological compensation (such as one for something sweet to eat often need something salty or vice versa)
In any event, my offer to kidnap me hereby officially open to any lady who would be interested. My mail is Electric.Pulse @ web.de - who gets me so anmailt determined immediately answer! * Lächel * (closer acquaintance, description of my appearance and my exact daily schedule with ways to work and free time * gg *)
11th September 2009 18:01
Abductions are really a common erotic fantasy for men and women. This I can confirm from years of experience with kidnappings of slaves to my SM sessions.
Regards
Domenqiue
1st Mai 2010 22:34
Hi,
So I can not understand at all! I am looking for a very long time for a lady who abused me as a kidnapping victim. I dream to do this once very real ... I want even more, even more intense!
Is there anything hotter than being attacked and tied up until I'm completely defenseless? Perhaps even a gag, but in any case, a blindfold or mask over his head, so I am in complete darkness, that I've lost, even where I am deported?
I dream of! I place myself at your disposal! You can reach me at the email:
... ... ... .... athotmail.com
I would be very pleased to receive a message.
18th July 2010 12:10
Well, ... I'm looking for a long time after such a possibility here in Switzerland. I think that would still give the absolute kick. I'm concerned, the lady should make me even more docile with poppers, would be my pleasure to do that!
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