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Vegetarian a la Kinbaku Bondage

Posted in From the everyday , BDSM Lifestyle 14 March 2013 by Domenique von Sternberg


For so many purposes other than bondage was, already used in special Kinbaku, the erotic bondage philosophy from Japan. This found object here is, however, but rather to a particular variant.

The photographer Thomas Duval , known for its exceptional food photographs wants to draw our attention to these photos to a respectful relationship with our food. Whether this succeeds him, the respective viewer this amusing photos must decide themselves well. So as BDSM connoisseur but to me the question: Is it now respectfully hobbled vegetables or tethered to the fennel symbolize abuse?

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Collection VI by Zana Bayne

Posted in BDSM lifestyle , fashion , music , shops , video / movies on 13 February 2013 by Domenique von Sternberg

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Designer: Zana Bayne
Director: Char Alfonzo
Styling: Jason Farrer
Music: From Haze "Mother Mountain" / Courtesy of Pendu Sound Recordings

Snowy greetings
Domenique

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News about "My day with Tarna" by Chris Caliman

Posted in From the everyday , BDSM Lifestyle , Video / Movies on 3 January 2013 by Domenique von Sternberg

On the occasion of Fetish Film Festival, 2012 in Kiel, I have a post written about the cinema premiere of the extraordinary documentary by Chris Caliman "My day with Tarna". The film was also selected by the audience at the best documentary of the festival, 2012. I have just received from Chris an interesting info.

The documentary can now be seen in full on Vimeo. So here the very interesting full version (40min.) from "My Day with Tarna" by Chris Caliman .

Greetings from the cinema seat
Domenique

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Cheers, the 2013 has begun ...

Posted in From the everyday , BDSM Lifestyle on 1 January 2013 by Domenique von Sternberg

DC only times ahead: a warm welcome to all the still-fresh 2013!

But not too loud, because my head is buzzing something of the past New Year's Eve night.

Like all of our ideas, plans and wishes are successful reality. The world a more peaceful and lead to increased concern for our planet, ecological action. But also that we can talk as long as possible in the decisions and resolutions it simply, a super-mega 2013!


(Photo by eugenio Recuenco)

Looking back on 2012, it was a dry year for me. Especially as regards the passion to BDSM, Femdom and Fetish. It really started a bit peeved to New Year's Eve in Amsterdam and has continued with the cancellation of femdom Sommercamps2012 on. But the visits of bizarre and kinky parties events were sown very sparse. Besides our beautiful dungeon is not so often come as desired for use. Yes, even once had inadvertently a moisture problem and the nota bene emulate without our (!). Other occupations and work stress have often prevented us from. But only these two factors would be too easy to blame. It was also just a lack of interest and pleasure to deal with some domination and submission, latex and leather as well as the many SM tools.

This has everything here of course reflected in my blog and it is also what concerns the contributions become a "dry" in 2012. The writing of my blog reflects yes finally my employment and the experiences with the various themes of BDSM, Femdom and fetishism.

Who of the year each attaches greater importance, the love of course says to the occasion: A new year is a chance to look at everything new and newly zustarten (solid line). What I mean is I begin when it comes to the blog, now also on New Year's still not clear. A few subs love around me hold me so far with longing-faithful view it from, just to put the blog still and disappear in the archive.

I have looked at midnight with champagne, homemade salmon blinis and fireworks, at least not set the intent more to report back on the blog and write. No, there were other, more important resolutions for 2013, I noted quietly and wisely I keep to myself. Those who know me personally can track success or failure.

So I write here for now on New Year's Day: Let us surprise you and maybe there really are still here to discover one or the other bizarre and kinky appetizers to read or share.

Greetings from the Office Blog
Domenique

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Fifty Shades of Chicken

Posted in From the everyday , BDSM lifestyle , humor , video / movies on 4 December 2012 by Domenique von Sternberg

There are some wonderful parodies of the shallow shade of Mr. Gray of ELJames. Which ensures a good fit to be approaching festivities, this bondage manual with a delicate finish.

With "Fifty Shades of Chicken" you can practice in peace a "hogtie" or the perfect "Bodyharness" and then when hunger comes up so slowly is the "model" in the oven safely cooked and crispy outside.

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Sex Machines

Posted in From the everyday , BDSM lifestyle , humor , music , video / movies on 29 November 2012 by Domenique von Sternberg

Soon one or other household appliance is perhaps lying under the Christmas tree. I'm assuming it's for the devoted house slaves. If there possibly an old part, I mean that's not the slave, is discarded, of course, this results in something interesting to tinker with the ideal opportunity.

Why not the ultimate sex machine! Where "the best" but then has to prove that climaxes.

In the video of the song "Elektrotechnique" of the Dutch hip hop / electro band "De Jeugd Van Tegenwoordig" several prototypes are very imaginative and stimulating to the bitter (painful) presented end. Of course, such a creative tinkering would also do well as a Christmas gift. Maybe not for the law, and of course only after proper security check and test duration.

Title: Elektrotechnique (2011)
Album: De Derde Laughing (2010)
Band: De Jeugd Van Tegenwoordig
Directed by Lernert & Sander
Label: Top Notch

Greetings from the hobby room
Domenique

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Cruel daughters in Switzerland

Posted in From the everyday , BDSM Lifestyle , Events , Locations , Music 26 November 2012 by Domenique von Sternberg

Last Saturday I was at the cruel daughters Performance appearance in the Fetishhalle (Switzerland).

What I got to see and hear, was an excessive show and driving songs towards industrial, darkwave, ebm, punk and chanson.

The passionate, even to's blood, intense performance of the three ladies, especially the singer Aranea Peel with their black and furious texts me very well. The songs of the cruel daughters reminded me in places of the fantastic classics from the band "The form" or "DAF".

The appearance, I think it was the first concert of the cruel daughters in Switzerland, took place during the event, " Wishing you bend over "in the BDSM location Fetishhalle instead.

As far as I know, but they are already in February 2013 in the Zurich area again make an appearance. I will certainly inform you of this in advance and report on the performance.

Gruesome Greetings
Domenique

PS: If you want to send a small financial contribution to my blog, but then buy the new CD "All for You" (Released 23:11:12) daughters of the Cruel easily in my Amazon store .

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Bondage for Beginners

Posted in From the everyday , BDSM Lifestyle , Video / Movies 19 November 2012 by Domenique von Sternberg

Who would like to participate in the bondage workshop of Matthias TJGrimme who found a week ago in the Whip Lounge instead and this does not but could for some reason, for which I have here a small, beautiful replacement solution or even a supplement for those who could not save anything during the workshop.

The DVD "Bondage for Beginners" by Matthias has recently been in the media publisher Laura appeared and includes the areas of safety, rope customer, basic techniques, upper and lower body Restraining session with Nicole and introduction to the bondage beginners Ingo.

When I started the DVD and the first chapter looked, I thought so for me: Oh man but it blasphemous to time in the matter. With a very quiet voice Matthias explains the most important basics of erotic bondage. Only after a while and a little change of place with the laptop in my comfy reading chair and putting on headphones, my mind could settle on the serene, quiet speed of the presentation and quality of comprehensive knowledge of Matthias penetrated so slowly to me. You must get involved in the DVD and take time for it, so on Monday morning, in addition to other everyday things it fits well but then not so pure.

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Reading by Matthias Grimme in the Whip Lounge

Posted in From the everyday , BDSM lifestyle , events , literature , locations on 12 November 2012 by Domenique von Sternberg

I would like to say a few words to the reading in the lounge Whip from here Matthias TJ Grimme write. I can not say anything about the workshop itself, because I was not there there. But the mood of the students who I met at the reading was well and sprayed almost humorous Bondagefreude ago.

I think it was from "The Session Cookbook" and in reading between thirty and forty persons present, who were all excited to personally by the internationally renowned bondage master, a few excerpts "Japan Bondage - manual" to hear.

The allure of a reading is obtained by the so additional stories and anecdotes of the author or the author, but also by the possibility to ask questions and to purchase a personally autographed copy of the still presented the work at the end of the event.

Including Matthias Grimme has not saved with various anecdotes and the audience, especially regarding the issue of "Bondage in Japan," gives some interesting background information. This was for me and my Subbie of particular interest, as we study it around next year to explore the Japanese BDSM and bondage scene on the spot.

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6 YEARS BLOG!

Posted in From the everyday , BDSM Lifestyle , Events , Fashion , Humor , Intimate Letters , Arts , Literature , Locations , New Toys , Shops , Video / Movies on 10 November 2012 by Domenique von Sternberg

Back from my morning run to finally be a part of my migraine last night and also going to do something about the stiff neck, I have now packed my laptop a few words today, the sixth anniversary of my blog to write down.

In complete contrast to last year ( post 2011 ) the relationship and the mood to my blog these days is somewhat restrained and thoughtful. This is due to various factors.

So is my interest and my slave to BDSM, Femdom and Fetish currently not so much in the foreground. This has also shown that I and my Subbie are encountered much less at parties and events and thus also maintain less contact with SM and fetish friends. It has also become more complex topics and new finds to find for my blog. I've already reported about much and in certain subjects I sometimes consider myself just prefer to get out. These are all reasons that make it difficult here regularly about my experiences and findings to write.

In the so-lament in front of me, I remember just a year back to the publisher, the Editorial of the small, quarterly member magazine "Fantasmo", which belonged to the same party and beautiful series in the nineties. The "Marquis" has apologized regularly in all editions of delay in the first appearance of the magazine and then mentioned the immense stress in the production / delivery of 300-350 books (large print run) and the organization of the party. Now, I would like to use and the performance of "Marquis" neither diminish nor criticize, and certainly not equate with my blog work. On the contrary, "Fantasmo" was back in the '90s a unique Members' Club in the Zurich area and meeting place and point of contact for many BDSMler and fetishists.

Back to today: The "Marquis", the complaints and lamentations at the time when "Fantasmo" not really helped and I belass it better in my few critical lines and look with optimism to the Femdom BDSM and Fetish future.

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Review of the 5th Fetish Film Festival 2012

Posted in BDSM lifestyle , events , venues , Video / Movies on 10 October 2012 by Domenique von Sternberg

Yesterday I still finally written the last meeting about the film Fetish Film Festival 2012 in Kiel. As long as I had never been before and even though this year's festival lasted only three days. The reason was the very high number of short films, and my claim to give each of those movies that really deserve attention.

Also this year, I had the impression that even more viewers have come to the performances. Gradually the festival established itself in terms of number of visitors. I was particularly pleased see so many youth BDSM ( smjg.org ) of Kiel, who also participated intense and meaningful to the discussion.

But also on transgender evening, a few nicely dressed TV's have ventured into cinema.

The Framework Programme, there were a few successful deals and which showed the lack of interest. So took the bondage of Gajin workshop attended by approximately 20 people, which is quite a success. The reading of Mystheria Oh, I was not able to visit from time pressure, lacking much of listeners, too bad. The display of photographs, drawings and paintings, it is difficult to measure the interest.

The second reading in the program, that of Nala Martin from her book " Safe Word "had attracted about 15 visitors / in and I was able to witness a part of it. Nala Martin has presented the excerpts from her novel with much vigor. What a natural left only arise after my personal feeling, something märchenerzählerische atmosphere. Which makes their statements and explanations in her novel, about the occupation of the dominatrix or the behavior of the BDSM community, I have a different attitude and have also experienced it differently. Well, the book is witty, erotic written, unconventional and very detailed.

As for the event in Lessingbad, so it was to be for me and my secretary this time simply impossible. I would like to have seen the special location. Vigasiosexploration the film, winner of the award 2011 ( article ), I have of course seen in the last year and is also placed in our Filmthek.

The gay party on Friday, Studio 54, we have simply omitted because the film screening and the ensuing discussion lasted until well past midnight. We have then enjoyed on Saturday the unique fetish dream even more and are swept back to the hotel late.

The Fetish Film Festival 2012 was once again a wonderful kaleidoscope of wide environment of fetishism and BDSM. Some posts have easily entertained, one or the other had an erotic effect, others have in turn provoking and just a few movies you have wondered whether they ever fit into the program. I would have personally shown the winner of the festival "In Good Hands" by Tanya Wexler out of competition. Since he had nothing to do very little to do with the festival theme. But the audience jury, which appeared very numerous in this film, has decided.

To the charm of the festival is always the presence of directors, actors and stakeholders as well as their joy and pride to inform the audience about the history of their work. What in the subsequent discussions in the cinema, which have also increased this year, always led to interesting reflections of what is seen.

To conclude my this year's report, I would like Andy, the program director of dream cinema thank you for his immense use again and again to find the stamina and the nose wonderful gems and his team a place to create in the films outside the mainstream, on such unconventional topics such as fetishism and BDSM, can be shown, and so get a bigger attention.

Fetish Movie greetings
Domenique (sm @ & Secretary)

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Fetish Film Festival Awards 2012

Posted in From the everyday , BDSM Lifestyle , Events , Venues , Video / Movies on 3 October 2012 by Domenique von Sternberg

Best film of the year:
IN GOOD HANDS
Directed by Tanya Wexler
Website

Best Actress:
Maggie Gyllenhaal
in IN GOOD HANDS
Website

Best Actor:
Hugh Dancy
in IN GOOD HANDS
Website

Best Performance Trans:
Deviant Kade
in RUBBER BORDELLO
Website

Best Documentary:
MY DAY WITH TARNA
Directed by Chris Caliman
Website

Best Short Film:
Jumpcut
Directed by Saskia Quax
Website

Best Actress in a Short Film:
Yulia Petrauskas
in DA KINK IN MY LAIR
Website

Best Actor in a short film:
Johnny Kostrey
in THE DRIVER
Website

Best Trans performances in clips
Atif Siddiq
HOUSE FOR SALE in
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Scott Speiser
in MISS D
Website

Best short documentary:
TRANSITION
Directed by Tim Brunsden and Paul McCann
Website

Best Concert Performance:
Buck up
Rammstein
Website

Best music video:
CRY ME A RIVER
Eclipse
Website

LET YOUR DARK SIDE OUT TO PLAY
O Zarathustra
Website

MY FETISH
Formalin
Website

STRAY SHADOWS
Blanket Barricade
Website

Best website of a movie producer:
www.rubberbordello.com

Best long clip:
SISSY SLUT SECRETARY (Transfetishvideo)
Website

Best Actress in a long clip:
Alexis Grace
in SISSY SLUT SECRETARY
Website

Best Actor in a long clip:
Christian
in CABARET

Best performance in a trans-long clip:
Tiffany DuNotte
in SISSY SLUT SECRETARY
Website

Best short clip:
GAG ON IT SLUT
Barbi Dawll

Best Actress in a short clip:
Karina Currie
in CHAINED AND INSPECTED

Best Actor in a short clip:
Lance Hart
CUCK in MACY'S BOYFRIEND

Best Trans-performance in a short clip:
Barbi Dawll
in GAG ON IT SLUT

Best Membership clips sites:

www.femmefatalefilms.com

www.purecfnm.com

www.restrainedelegance.com

www.theartofblowjob.com

*****

The compilation of the program and the evaluation of the voting by the audience lies solely with the person in charge of the fetish film festivals keel.

http://www.fetisch-film-festival.de

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