Back from my morning run to finally be a part of my migraine last night and also going to do something about the stiff neck, I have now packed my laptop a few words today, the sixth anniversary of my blog to write down.

In complete contrast to last year ( post 2011 ) the relationship and the mood to my blog these days is somewhat restrained and thoughtful. This is due to various factors.

So is my interest and my slave to BDSM, Femdom and Fetish currently not so much in the foreground. This has also shown that I and my Subbie are encountered much less at parties and events and thus also maintain less contact with SM and fetish friends. It has also become more complex new issues and findings to find for my blog. I've already reported about much and in certain subjects I sometimes consider myself just prefer to get out. These are all reasons that make it difficult here regularly about my experiences and findings to write.

In the so-lament in front of me, I remember just a year back to the publisher, the Editorial of the small, quarterly member magazine "Fantasmo", which belonged to the same party and beautiful series in the nineties. The "Marquis" has apologized regularly in all editions of delay in the first appearance of the magazine and then mentioned the immense stress in the production / delivery of 300-350 books (large print run) and the organization of the party. Now, I would like to use and the performance of "Marquis" neither diminish nor criticize, and certainly not equate with my blog work. On the contrary, "Fantasmo" was back in the '90s a unique Members' Club in the Zurich area and meeting place and point of contact for many BDSMler and fetishists.

Back to today: The "Marquis", the complaints and lamentations at the time when "Fantasmo" not really helped and I belass it better in my few critical lines and look with optimism to the Femdom BDSM and Fetish future.

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Who has not done that before, or at least had the erotic desire for it. Really horny times with cream, chocolate or other Flushed around sows. But not everyone is called a correspondingly large and sensual wet zone his own. And in a cozy bedroom are the side effects of such unrestrained wet games, such as wet-sticky mattress and dirty linen, then also not what pleases the lady of the house really.

Now there's help with the paddling pool for kinky adults, including four fixed ankle grips (!). The private Wet Playground can be set up anywhere, so bloat where the desire for a slippery-wet pleasure calls.
And he even fits the back of my slave vans to drive the mud (Mud Play) kinky shit slave to the edge of a body of water or a suitable car wash (Shine Conditioner with!) After the slave hunting or pet play.

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A few days ago me a video noticed with a very special BDSM cage. After the initial research on the web but were still many questions unanswered. Only a touch brought me further and also enough information for a post here in my blog.

Since I own six cages, this extraordinary part of my expert eye is naturally equal noticed. Because it can be opened all over the turnstile and so are much more play options available than in a normal cage. But even the most well thought out mechanics and beautiful workmanship impressed. All in all, an unusual BDSM-iron furniture for people with enough room.

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Once again I would like to introduce a BDSM tool I tested myself with my slave. The "nipple sucker" were last December, part of the great advent calendar that my slave had been given to me. Meanwhile, I have tested the big nipples sucker extensively in him.

The two vacuums are really as strong as they look. What she does not like the use is hairy skin. Otherwise, they are quite safe to use, and the feeling that they cause is not of a pleasant suction to quite severe pain. Holds the tingling, as with all suction and clamping tools for the decrease some time to what extend a session on "exciting" way.
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With their luxurious range of erotic tools and lingerie the boutique in the international trend, Erotic and sex toys out of the awful sex shop ambience is freeing. What they achieve with their noble range quite. The video of Berenice V. I find nicely done and probably speaks to the younger generation. Whether this will be the more expensive tools and clothes also make is debatable.

Boutique: Mise en Cage (Paris)
Music: Solid Attack "Paradise Circus" as a remix of the Canadian duo Zeds Dead (2010)
Director: Berenice V. , more of her on Vimeo

Regards
Domenique

The beautiful designed book "Design Behind Desire" by Lisa Z. Morgan deals with the aspects of erotic desire in fashion, design and art.

The Faramehmedia publisher of Patrice Farameh is known for their high quality and luxuriously designed art and lifestyle books. With "Design Behind Desire" them together with the author Lisa Z. Morgan created a wonderful, erotic photo book.

About some of the artists and artisans contained therein I wrote already here in my blog.

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It is and remains the queen of erotic jewelry. Betony Vernon has her wonderful and unique collection of some erotic jewelry expands again.
Five years ago, I have already a blog ( post written) about their special collection. Now she has become the trending topic Bondage accepted and a wonderful golden or silver ring with matching silk rope designed. Can be worn as a pure piece of jewelry or as an addictive jewels.

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Because during my New Year's Eve stay in Amsterdam at Absolute Danny had bought a very nice strap-on belt. But of course it was very obvious that I sometimes still looked around for a new, matching dildo for my range.

So off you go and surfed through the net. But just for the sexy rubber gizmos for intimate use, it is not necessarily easy to order these online. Are there still big differences in the materials used and the use of the yet so scorned plasticizers. A few of the icky, sticky things are from my previous Pro-Domme-time still somewhere with me in a crate around.

So I ended up finally in the known and proven manufacturer Fun Factory . But instead now the selected sex toy easy to order on the web, I have decided that rather in the adult entertainment business my confidence in " Special Moments to get "in Zurich. On the one hand to sniff again by the sensual range and to change with the nice owner Alexandra Haas a few words. News and gossip is definitely always better to learn in private on site and exchange.

And so it was that I used the "Tiger" by Fun Factory in black ordered held there with "Special Moments" and it still learned this and that tip or more were.

A week later came the phone call from Alexandra, I could the "Tiger" pick up now. So moved back to Zurich and into the quaint little shop. However, the boss was not there, unfortunately, and so I asked at the very friendly clerk after my order. The camp was not to find the "Tiger", just a box from Fun Factory called "stubs". For a short phone call to the boss was inevitable. This did quickly notice and stated that "stubs" is the surname and "Tiger" the first name of the dildo. So everything is correct!

Now I have thus a black dildo name "Tiger stubs". Whereby any resemblance to living persons is purely coincidental and in no way intentional. We'll see if and how I was "Putting" will.

Greetings from Green
Domenique

As the driving force for creative ideas and projects mostly the desire is something that so far has never been seen to create their own passion out for yourself.

This was also the reason why the Fleur Pierets and Julian P. Boom, the magazine "Et Alors?" Founded. You have observed time and again that there are magazines each for lesbian, fetish, transgender, fashionistas, gay or BDSM. But they did not find any journal that brings together all these topics and reported on sensual, aesthetic and entertaining way about it.

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It goes on with my tips for Amsterdam. It would be a shame if you would give when staying in the Absolute Suite on the 10% discount for orders in the Absolute Danny boutique on Oudezijds Achterburgwal 78th So we still have razed on the last evening a trip to the store around the corner and ever looked what it so special would have for us.
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During my stay in Amsterdam there was of course a tour of the BDSM and Fetishshops. It is a quite considerable number scattered throughout the center and thus not to hike in sexy high heels. So good shoes for the cobblestone streets, warm jacket against the nasty wind and umbrella and city map on the iPhone was announced.

With the large selection of diverse shops and the different range it is not easy to keep track. Even more difficult it will also access to an interesting tool and to buy it. More and more I'm considering whether to use this tool in the collection is necessary and really should be bought. Has not my equipment, assumed a considerable extent with the SM-equipment of my slaves, over the years.

A special part I have now unfortunately then let it go by in Amsterdam. The "killer Mouthgag", a mouth gag with bite ball which can be turned by a crank deeper into the throat. One way I find exciting part for the more consistent and stringent SM games.

What do you think?

Find and order to the common crank-gag (€ 159 -) is the way to Mister B. under the category Blindfold & gags. The gay shop in the Warmoesstraat 89 is beautifully designed and the staff is extremely friendly, so gets to me a good grade.

Greetings from the Office Blog
Domenique

PS: Incidentally, there is another similar model with crank in chrome, with prices for both variants vary.

I almost missed the birthday of my blog out of sheer Fetish Film Festival and other hullabaloo. 5 years & I write regularly about fetish, BDSM and Femdom in all its colorful variations. But my personal experiences and the dominant woman, mistress, ExDomina, and owner of a slave have been since those five years detained in various forms from me here.

My blog has become one of the most widely read BDSM and fetish blogs in Germany. Among the average of 1,000 visits a day, readers can find out almost all regions of the world. What always surprises me, but with translation programs and migration and the German-speaking population, this can be explained well.

Who wants to get an overview of all my blog, this was the blog camp recommended. I even look at now and again with joy and pride. The amount of different articles, links and tips is yes but now amazing.

And as a little birthday surprise for my readers, I make a small raffle among all those that leave a comment here on the anniversary. Of course, only ever one comment per writer comes into the prize draw, so the new comment-spammers .

As a price, there are the special and bizarre "Fetishbox" with three exceptional DVD's. The films contained therein are: The very oblique "Razor Blade Smile", which totally crazy "Killer Tongue" and my absolute favorite fetish and BDSM film "Preaching to the Perverted" (German title: The Fetish Club) all in German synchronous version.

HP. The winning raffle is finished! Comments are still welcome, but can no longer participate in this Contest.

Happy birthday greetings
Domenique